My Feelings
Temperature

Pick the feeling you have right now. Then slide it up or down to show how big that feeling is.

How are you feeling right now?¿Cómo te sientes ahora?

What temperature are my feelings right now?¿Qué temperatura tienen mis sentimientos ahora?

Warm happy

Happy is a warm feeling.

What can you do to cool down?¿Qué puedes hacer para calmarte?

For teachers & families · The activity

Naming the feeling is step one. Sizing it is where self-control begins.

Origins of this app

This is a digital version of a hand-colored, heart-felt original activity that lived in a preschool classroom. Children identified their emotions with peers and teachers on a quadrant chart and then moved their photo up and down on a velcro strip beside a crayon rainbow: cool feelings at the bottom, hot feelings at the top. It was how a four-year-old told the group that someone bumping into them gave them a medium-sized, orange feeling, not a big, red one.

The screen keeps the features that made it work: choose the feeling, show how big it is, and then decide on a calm-down strategy.

Why intensity, not just emotion

Most feelings charts stop at identification: happy, sad, mad. But a child who can only sort feelings into bins has no language for the difference between annoyed and enraged — and no reason to treat them differently. Intensity is the variable that predicts behavior.

Asking "how big is it?" inserts a beat between the feeling and the action. That pause is the mechanism. Over time the child who can say "I'm a little bit mad" has already done the appraisal work that keeps a little bit of mad from becoming a thrown block. Researchers call this emotional granularity; in a classroom it looks like a child choosing a word instead of a hand.

The temperature metaphor does the cognitive lifting. Children already know that warm and hot are the same thing at different strengths, and that hot needs care. The chart borrows that intuition and lends it to feelings.

The intensity ladders

Each feeling carries five words, not one, and the line runs the full height of the rainbow for every one of them. Where the monster lands is the temperature — so a child who settles peaceful at the bottom hears "peaceful is a cool feeling," and a child who runs mad to the top hears "furious is a hot feeling." The words are the point: this is vocabulary instruction wearing a slider.

When the feeling is warm or hot

A warm or hot reading opens a second question — "How can I cool down?" — and six things a child can actually do: take a deep breath, get a drink of water, take a break, read a book, choose an activity, tell someone how you feel. Naming a strategy while the feeling still has a name and a size is what turns the chart from a mirror into a tool. Only cool readings skip it — a cool feeling has nothing to bring down.

Using it with a group

The chart is most useful out loud. After a child sets their monster, ask the two questions that turn a private feeling into shared information: "What made it that big?" and "What would help it get smaller?" The second question is where coping strategies get taught, and it only makes sense once size is on the table.

Run it at arrival, after a conflict, and before a transition. The same child at three different temperatures in one morning is the whole curriculum.

Standards alignment

What this activity is practicing

Bilingual by design

The original chart was labeled in Spanish and English for a dual language classroom. A toggle on the home screen creates an experience a child can run in the language they arrived in.

Sources

Competency and sub-skill wording from the CASEL framework. Goal wording from the Head Start Early Learning Outcomes Framework. Standard and indicator wording from the New York State Prekindergarten Learning Standards and the Common Core State Standards for English Language Arts.